Saturday, 14 September 2013

Fun at the farm

The other morning I awoke to the sound of Isaac crying just before 7:00 AM.  I went into his room and he told me that a frog was trying to catch a fly and the fly was in his hair and it was hurting him.  "It wasn't a dream," he told me.   I couldn't find the frog or fly.

Isaac and I had a wonderful time at the farm and I'm excited that we get to go there every Monday for five more weeks.  We met all of the animals, made some tasty cookies using squash, had craft time, went to the garden to see the squash growing, ate our cookies and said goodbye.  The tractor was broken but I think we may have a wagon ride this week.  We'll also be learning more about chickens and eggs.  Isaac didn't want to touch the chicken at first but then he found his nerve.  It's great to see him trying new things.  I need to take some photos at the farm.

Graham and I will be starting a 10-week group course for bereaved parents.  There will be either four or five couples in the group plus the facilitating couple whose son passed away a number of years ago.  We visited the Coping Centre this week and were very impressed and thankful that we live so close.  I already think they are experts at practicing hospitality (there were both baked goods and chocolate put in front of us!) and I trust that the sessions will be helpful. 

Isaac has lots of potty stickers
I listened to an interview with R. C. Sproul Jr. this week whose wife and child died within ten months of each other.  At the end the interviewer asked, "How are you doing?"  I liked his response:  "Because the hardship is not death but absence, it doesn't get better.  The distance doesn't change, because they're still gone.  So my answer is ... we're sad, like we're supposed to be, and we're trusting in the promises of God."

I've been able to cry a few more times.  I was wishing that Josiah's final couple of hours were a little different but in reality his passing happened relatively quickly which was a blessing for him.  (I'm not referring to his time at the hospital which we are both happy about.  We're glad we asked them to do whatever they could to try to save Josiah.  He was already gone then.)

Isaac gave "hay" to all of the animals today
Isaac was excited to be introduced to Amelia Bedelia books this week.  He thinks her name is very funny.  He also started a new Sunday School class last week.  He could even tell us a few things that he'd learned in class. 

I look at Josiah's photos and I'm so thankful to God for all of the time we had with him ... though I wish he were here in my arms.

It's time to head to bed.  Thanks so much for your prayers!

Blessings,

Elizabeth

1 John 4:7,8
Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.

2 comments:

  1. O Give thanks unto the Lord,for He is good; for His mercy endureth forever. Psalm 107:1

    Hello Elizabeth, Graham and Isaac.

    Thank you so much for the videos of Remembering Josiah and Josiah’s funeral. The music and sound is very clear on vimeo.com. So many beautiful photographs of Josiah with you and his grandparents. Darling Josiah experienced a lot in his short life and his beaming smile lives on, and makes me smile as I look at some of the photographs.

    I am so glad that you had a holiday at the cottage near the seaside. Delightful photographs of the three of you there and Isaac holding up his bucket of sand. Brought back pleasant memories of long ago building sandcastles with my auntie Julia and my mother and father, who are with Josiah in Heaven.

    It is splendid that you Elizabeth and Isaac visit the farm. Isaac, you are looking real good in today’s top picture with your blue hat and coat to match your soft blue eyes. I am so pleased you have tiny farm animals at home and are looking after them and providing hay for them. Your granddad Kenneth has fed cows, calves and chickens when he lived on farms. I am sure he will tell you many stories if you ask him. It is marvellous to know that you have begun Sunday School Isaac. May you grow in wisdom as you learn about people who obeyed and put their trust in God, our Heavenly Father, Our Saviour and Comforter, as you do.

    May God always bless you all, and the peace, comfort and protection of the Holy Spirit ever be present as you are healed and strengthened, sleeping well and safely at night and energised and at ease during the day. Elizabeth may you have a smooth pregnancy in Jesus’ precious name. Graham may you find fulfilment in your work and be a blessing. Thank you God.

    For the mountains shall depart, and the hills be removed; but My kindness shall not depart from thee, neither shall the covenant of My peace be removed, saith the LORD that hath mercy on thee. Isaiah 54 v 10.

    Much love and prayers from your auntie Julia.

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  2. "He cares for you." and I think that Sproul Jr's response is one of the best. It is so truthful and full of integrity re: grieving times. Praying for your days, Much love.

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